Husbands and sons in the United States and Japan: Cultural expectations and caregiving experiences

In the United States and Japan, social and demographic changes are placing pressure on men to become involved in elder care. In Japan, 15 percent of caregivers to the elderly are men compared with 28 percent in the United States. This qualitative study uses in-depth interviews with 15 Japanese and 30 American men to compare their daily caregiving experiences and examine the impact of culture on their roles. We identify common elements as well as differences in husbands' and sons' motivations to take on this role, the tasks they perform, the impact on their lives, and societal responses. Culture is a factor in the social shaping of the caregiving experience through different societal expectations about the roles, coupled with different family structure, different caregiving ideals, different views on dependency, and different views on self-expression and on the need to maintain harmonious relationships.