THE INFLUENCE OF SOCIAL SUPPORT ON AIDS-RELATED GRIEF REACTION AMONG GAY MEN

This paper examines the relationships between instrumental and emotional social support and the experience of grief reaction in a sample of 180 gay men who had lost a lover or close friend to AIDS during the first 5 years of the epidemic. Structured, face-to-face interviews were conducted in mid-1985. Grief reaction was assessed through a newly developed 12-item scale (alpha = 0.85). Availability and adequacy of instrumental and emotional support were assessed with reference to the tasks of caretaking and emotional pain experienced during the lover's or close friend's illness with AIDS. The findings indicate that gay men who lost a lover or close friend to AIDS experienced symptoms of grief similar to those reported in studies of bereaved spouses and parents. The intensity of these grief reactions appears to be influenced by a number of factors. First, more intense grief reactions were observed among those who had taken care of their lover or close friend during his illness compared with those who did not act as caretakers. Second, while the simple availability of instrumental and emotional support was unrelated to grief reactions, the perceived adequacy of both types of support was strongly related to the level of grief. Respondents who had received inadequate help with caretaking responsibilities experienced more intense symptoms of grief subsequent to the death compared with those who reported receiving adequate caretaking support. Similarly, respondents who did not obtain adequate emotional support for the pain they experienced during the course of the illness reported more intense symptoms of grief compared with those who felt they had received adequate support. These findings are discussed with reference to their implications for informal and formal helping networks, and the critical role of providing 'care for the caregiver' in both professional and non-professional settings involved with the care of individuals with AIDS. © 1990.