Forgiveness, Apology, and Communicative Responses to Hurtful Events

被引：71

作者：

Bachman, Guy Foster ^{[1
]}

Guerrero, Laura K. ^{[2
]}

机构：

[1] Calif State Univ Long Beach, Commun Studies, Long Beach, CA 90840 USA

[2] Arizona State Univ, Hugh Downs Sch Human Commun, Human Commun, Tempe, AZ 85287 USA

来源：

COMMUNICATION REPORTS | 2006年 / 19卷 / 01期

关键词：

Apology; Forgiveness; Hurtful Events; Communicative Responses;

D O I：

10.1080/08934210600586357

中图分类号：

G2 [信息与知识传播];

学科分类号：

05 ; 0503 ;

摘要：

Data from 263 individuals who had been hurt by something a dating partner said or did offered support for the interpersonal forgiveness model-forgiveness associated positively with integrative communication and negatively with de-escalation and distributive communication. When hurt individuals believed the partner had sincerely apologized they were more likely to grant forgiveness and report using the direct strategies of integrative and distributive communication, and less likely to report using de-escalation and loyalty. Among the various hurtful events investigated, breaking up with the partner and being sexually unfaithful were reportedly the least forgivable offenses.

引用

页码：45 / 56

页数：12

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