AUTHENTICITY AND POSITIVITY STRIVINGS IN MARRIAGE AND COURTSHIP

被引：322

作者：

SWANN, WB ^{[1
]}

DELARONDE, C ^{[1
]}

HIXON, JG ^{[1
]}

机构：

[1] UNIV CONNECTICUT,DEPT PSYCHOL,HARTFORD,CT 06112

来源：

JOURNAL OF PERSONALITY AND SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY | 1994年 / 66卷 / 05期

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D O I：

10.1037/0022-3514.66.5.857

中图分类号：

B84 [心理学];

学科分类号：

04 ; 0402 ;

摘要：

We proposed that married persons would want their spouses to see them as they saw themselves but that dating persons would want their relationship partners to evaluate them favorably. A survey of 176 married and dating couples tested these predictions. Just as married persons were most intimate with spouses whose evaluations verified their self-views, dating persons were most intimate with partners who evaluated them favorably. For married people with negative self-views, then, intimacy increased as their spouses evaluated them more negatively. Marriage apparently precipitates a shift from a desire for positive evaluations to a desire for self-verifying evaluations.

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页码：857 / 869

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