Listening to Another's Distress in Everyday Relationships

被引:24
作者
Lewis, Tiffany [1 ]
Manusov, Valerie [2 ]
机构
[1] Univ Maryland, Dept Commun, College Pk, MD 20742 USA
[2] Univ Washington, Dept Commun, Box 353740, Seattle, WA 98195 USA
关键词
Disclosure; Interaction; Listening; Relationships; Trauma;
D O I
10.1080/01463370903107279
中图分类号
G2 [信息与知识传播];
学科分类号
05 ; 0503 ;
摘要
Talking about a difficult event may reduce discloser distress, but it may increase it in the listener. This essay offers a model that assesses some antecedent and interactional variables proposed to be involved with listening and connected with listeners' negative distress. Based on 82 reports of interactions with close relational others, levels of negative distress correlated positively with the amount of responsibility people felt for the other and time reported listening to the others' disclosure. Those who reported validating the other also reported more negative distress than did those who said their response style was to give advice. This article offers possible modifications to the model based in these results.
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页码:282 / 301
页数:20
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