The Therapeutic Relationship in Emotion-Focused Therapy

Important qualities of the relationship that make it therapeutic are discussed. The relationship is seen as both therapeutic in and of itself and as providing a facilitative environment from specific change processes. The role of the relationship in emotion-focused therapy is discussed within this framework. The relationship in emotion-focused therapy is seen as curative by serving an affect-regulation function, which is internalized over time by the client. This function is accomplished by offering a soothing affect-attuned bond characterized by the therapist's presence and empathic attunement to affect as well as acceptance and congruence. Second, the relationship is seen as functioning as a means to an end by offering an optimal environment for facilitating specific modes of emotional processing. In our view, affect is much more likely to be approached, tolerated, and accepted in the context of a safe relationship.