TRANS-KIN UNDOING AND REDOING GENDER: NEGOTIATING RELATIONAL IDENTITY AMONG FRIENDS AND FAMILY OF TRANSGENDER PERSONS

The experiences of transgender persons have gained increased attention in academic discourse; however, few studies address how significant others, family members, friends, and allies (SOFFAs) process the transition of a loved one. This study seeks to fill this gap with research based on 133 observational hours and fifty interviews. Focusing on three relational identity themes-sexual orientation, social role, and religious identity-the findings suggest that SOFFAs use various intentional and unintentional strategies to negotiate relational identities. Furthermore, reflected appraisals and social stigma mediate the ability of SOFFAS to "undo" and "redo" gender when negotiating their relational identities.