We're not old!: Older women's negotiation of aging and oldness

This article is based on participant observation research at a seniors center in central Canada in which the writer sought to acquire an understanding of how older adults define, interpret, and negotiate their realities and identities. Through activity and group membership the center members-the majority of whom are single, older women between the ages of 50 and 90-seek to distance themselves from the category of "old" and the accompanying ageist stereotypes. Striving to establish and preserve their precarious membership in the "not old," center members struggle to reconcile their belief and experience of older adulthood as a time of activity, health, and happiness with their ever-present fear of declining health and the realities of widowhood and the loss of youthful attractiveness.