This paper considers a neuro-fuzzy based identification problem for Wiener model with controlled autoregressive moving average noise. The separable signal is applied to decouple the dynamic linear part and the static nonlinear part, and the correlation analysis method is adopted to estimate the parameters of the linear part. To improve the convergence rate of generalized extended stochastic gradient (GESG) algorithm, a generalized extended stochastic gradient algorithm with a forgetting factor is derived for estimating the parameters of the nonlinear part and the parameters of noise model. Examples results verify the effectiveness of the proposed method.