Carer insights into self-harm in the very old: A qualitative study

Objective To examine the insights of carers to better understand self-harm in their older relatives. Methods An in-depth interview was conducted with the nominated relative/friend (carer) of a person over 80 who had self-harmed within the last month. Carer interpretation and experience of the self-harm and clinical care were explored qualitatively. Audio recordings were transcribed and the content thematically analyzed using N-VIVO. Results Thirty-two carers of 30 older people who self-harmed were interviewed. Physical, social, and psychological issues were identified as contributory to self-harm. Themes relating to the perceived barriers to seeking help included "they can't communicate," "suicide and secrets," and "invalidation." Themes for the intent of self-harm were "attention seeking" and "wanting to die." Themes which emerged for consequences of self-harm for carers were "anger," "guilt and self-blame," and "it made us ill." Themes for solutions to address the underlying factors leading to self-harm were "more practical support and structure," "improving communication," "removing means of self-harm," "advance care directives as a solution for suffering," and "ignoring self-harm." Clinical care themes were "shared shame and stigma," "safety and supervision vs being locked up," "clinicians dismissing the carer," and "relief and support." Conclusions Validation of carer perspectives and understanding family dynamics may improve communication at various system levels and inform interventions for older persons, concurrently support families, and potentially reduce risk of repeat self-harm. Good care must be holistic, be person-centred, and relieve carer burden. A shared understanding and psychotherapeutic approaches to management of self-harm in late life should be considered.