Introduction In order to reduce the possible risk of infection by SARS-CoV-2, access restrictions have been introduced in all areas of public life. In extra- and intramural health care facilities, these measures also affect pregnant women, women giving birth, and women who have recently given birth as well as their partners. The aim of this study is to collect and reflect on the experiences of expectant fathers against the background of pandemic-related restrictions.Method Following a qualitative study design, 11 guided interviews with fathers who experienced a birth during the Covid 19 pandemic were conducted in June 2022. Based on a content analysis according to Mayring, categories were derived, and the results from the interviews were transferred to a higher level of abstraction and interpreted.Results The fathers felt excluded, stressed and insecure due to the pandemic-related restrictions during pregnancy, birth, and the women's inpatient stay. Although there was understanding for the measures, there was a prevailing fear of not being able to support the partner sufficiently and of not having enough opportunities for bonding with the newborn.Conclusion The results of the study make it clear that during the covid pandemic, the need for structured frameworks for the involvement of accompanying persons in the obstetric setting should receive increased attention. The active participation of partners in antenatal and birth care should be encouraged.