Human hair can convey aspects of gender, race, culture, beauty, and media. This paper addresses the manipulation and modification of curly and coily hair textures to discuss the relationship between hair, identity, and stigma among Brazilian women while emphasizing the specificities of Brazilian society. Following the pre-analysis of 8,000 spontaneous comments posted on a Brazilian YouTube channel, a corpus was prepared and analysed, leading to two main results. (i) Curly and coily-haired Brazilian women are exposed to the "pain" that characterize power situations because they bear a stigmatized body attribute; (ii) the construction of the self by these women is articulated with the social identity imposed on them, pointing to a social transformation by which other references are incorporated into the notion of beauty, thus creating an alternative for them to be accepted with their "natural" characteristics.