"Unveiling the 'Empty Pool/Pull'": Gambling Disorder's Impact on the Sense of Belonging to the Jewish Ultra-Orthodox Community

Closed religious communities cultivate a robust communal identity, shared faith, values, and norms among their members, providing them with social and emotional support. Deviance carries significant consequences, specifically disintegrating members' sense of belonging. Gambling disorder (GD) is characterized by harmful gambling behaviors that negatively affect individuals' lives. While gambling is a prevalent recreational activity, within closed religious communities, addiction, including GD, is viewed as a violation of religious teachings, values, and communal norms. This study explores GD's impact on the sense of belonging of Jewish Ultra-Orthodox men and their spouses in Israel. This research employed constructivist grounded theory, interviewing twenty-two men with GD and eleven spouses and uncovered two complementary themes. The first, "Depleting versus replenishing of the personal aspects of sense of belonging," elucidates GD's different effects on the men and spouses' sense of belonging. The second, "Paying the toll," illuminates the emotional experiences and actions of the men and the spouses in reaction to societal conditional negative regard directed at them, disintegrating the sense of belonging of the men, but also that of the spouses who did not deviate from communal norms. The paper introduces the novel concept of "an empty pool/pull," portraying these individuals' limbo state. The "empty pool" represents the depletion of faith, adherence to religious commandments, and communal values for the men, while the "empty pull" signifies the inclination of the men and the spouses to conform amid the community's unfulfilled promise of protection. The study advocates for further research and offers clinical insights for therapists.