You Stole My Heart: Mate Poaching Tactics of Dominance- and Prestige-Oriented Individuals

Recent work has investigated the influence of dominance and prestige on mate retention; however, comparatively little research has examined these constructs in the context of mate poaching. What tactics do dominance- and prestige-oriented individuals use to lure a desired mate from an existing relationship? In the current study, participants (n = 559) completed measures of dominance orientation, prestige orientation, and past mate poaching experiences. It was predicted that dominance-oriented individuals would use direct, forceful poaching tactics, whereas prestige-oriented individuals would use more prosocial and benevolent tactics. Results provided partial support for these hypotheses. Dominance orientation was positively associated with tactics such as derogating one's current partner, inviting meddling into the relationship, and occupying the mate's time, whereas prestige orientation was positively associated with being generous and using humor. These findings suggest that individuals may adopt mate poaching tactics in line with their dispositional levels of dominance and prestige.